Went to Two Parties in Two Days

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Tuesday, March 18, 1913: Carrie came home from the party this morning. I had a very nice time. Went to another party tonight. Think this will be about enough for this week. Didn’t have quite as good a time tonight as I had last night.

Were the parties at one of these homes in McEwensville?

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

It sounds like Grandma was having fun–even if the party wasn’t as good as the one the day before. The previous day, Grandma wrote that she and her sister Ruth had gone to a party in McEwensville.

Carrie Stout was a friend. I’m not quite sure what it means that Carrie came home “this morning”. Did Carrie stay at the party until after midnight? . . . or did she stay all night at the host’s home?

Two weeknight parties in one week seems like plenty to me.

I think that this entry and the one from the previous day are the first diary entries where Grandma wrote about going to a party on a weeknight.

For much of the diary, it seemed like Grandma attended very few parties—and sometimes months passed with any mention of a party. I’m glad her social life was improving (but I hope her school work didn’t suffer).

Onion Snow

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Monday, March 17, 1913: The green was in evidence today. Got caught in a blizzard this morning going to school but it didn’t last very long.

Ruth and I went to a party this evening up at McEwensville. It was going to be a surprise party, but it didn’t quite turn out that way.

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

It sounds like they had an “onion snow.” We used to always try to plant our onions by mid-March; and, we’d say that there’d be one more snow storm—the onion snow— after the onions were planted.

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What was the party?. . . a St.Patrick’s Day party? . . . a birthday party?. . and why didn’t it end up being a surprise party?

HAPPY ST. PATRICK’S DAY!

The Choice of Friends

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Sunday, March 16, 1913: Went to Sunday School this morning. Was over to Carrie’s this afternoon.

Grandma would have walked over this hill toward McEwensville to reach the Stout home. A hundred years ago the road was still dirt. — Grandma would have walked over this hill toward McEwensville to reach Carrie’s home.

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

Carrie Stout was a friend of Grandma’s who was often mentioned in the diary.

Here’s what a hundred-year-old book had to say about the choice of friends:

The Choice of Friends

All of our greatest intellectual leaders, from time immemorial have been unanimous in their teachings that one of the most important elements in the molding of the mind and character was the nature of our friendships.

Tennyson says, “I am a part of all that I have met.” The immortal bard puts it, “It is certain that either wise bearing or ignorant carriage is caught, as men take disease from one another; therefore let men take heed of their company.”

A friend should be congenial, with similar tastes, opportunities, and training: frank in criticism, yet sympathetic in spirit; loyal and staunch in adversity, and one who disseminates an atmosphere which is broadening, elevating, and uplifting. Such a friend is to be desired and to be sought after.

Physical Hygiene and Physical Training for Women (1911) by Anna M. Galbraith

Cartoon Making Fun of Suffragettes

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Friday, March 14, 1913: Nothing doing.

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

Since Grandma didn’t write much a hundred years ago today, I’ll share an old cartoon about suffragettes that appeared in the April 4, 1914 issue of the Watsontown Record and Star.

Today it’s hard to perceive why anyone would think that women shouldn’t have the right the vote—it’s interesting to get a sense of the opposite perspective from this cartoon.

The Watsontown Record and Star is a long defunct newspaper from a town very near to where Grandma lived. I’ve only ever seen a few issues of it. But it probably was a newspaper that Grandma regularly read, and it probably reflected commonly held opinions in her community.

We’ve come a long way!!

Writing Another Essay

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Wednesday, March 12, 1913: Am trying to write my essay.

Lewis Hine's picture of child coal miners (Source: Wikimedia Commons) — Lewis Hine’s picture of child coal miners (Source: Wikimedia Commons)

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

Hmm… Did Grandma have to write another essay?

During much of February she was working on an essay about the Revolutionary War. Her teacher was going to give the student who wrote the best Revolutionary War essay a two and a half dollar gold piece. . . Grandma hasn’t mentioned it in the diary in quite awhile. I suppose she didn’t win the coin.

What was this essay about? . . .

I find that I want to ask myself: If I lived a hundred years ago, what would I have enjoyed writing an essay about? I know that the lens is all wrong, but here are some topic ideas that I think would have been interesting.

Should child labor be banned? — Child labor was very controversial in 1913. There were many coal mines in the southeastern part of the county where Grandma lived that used a lot of child labor, so this might have made a good essay topic.
The reasons why women should have the right to vote—It seems obvious today, but women’s suffrage was an arguable point in 1913.
The problem of adulterated foods—This was just a few years after the publication of Upton Sinclair’s book, The Jungle—and many people were very worried about the chemicals put into processed foods.
Should alcohol be prohibited? The prohibition movement was gathering steam in 1913, and taking either side of this issue would have made a good essay topic.
Planting trees on clear-cut land to improve the environment. People were worried about the environment in 1913. One concern was all of the erosion that was occurring due to the clear-cutting of old-time forests.

Chose a Date for the Play

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Tuesday, March 11, 1913: We decided tonight to have our play on the fifth of April.

The play was probably was held at the McEwensville Community Hall. The same building has served as the town’s community hall for more than 100 years.

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

The previous evening Grandma did not go to play practice because it was raining. Probably the practice was canceled on the 10th and moved to the 11th due to the inclement weather. In general it seemed play practice only took place once—or maybe twice–a week.

Grandma had been going to play practices since January 27. She had the role of Chloe, the servant. It seems somewhat surprising that the date of the play was only now selected. The cast probably wanted to be confident that they knew their lines and were ready for the play before choosing a date.

I suppose there was no need to rush to select the date since the play was probably the only upcoming event in the small town of McEwensville–and nothing else was vying for the venue.

Didn’t Go To Play Practice

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Monday, March 10, 1913: It rained tonight so we didn’t go up to practice.

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

Grandma was in the class play. Did some of the cast members show up for practice? . . or did everyone independently decide that the weather was too bad?

Today we’d text, email, or call if we couldn’t get to a play practice or meeting. A hundred years ago, did people just use their own judgment to determine whether an event was probably canceled due to weather?