The Choice of Friends

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Sunday, March 16, 1913: Went to Sunday School this morning. Was over to Carrie’s this afternoon.

Grandma would have walked over this hill toward McEwensville to reach the Stout home. A hundred years ago the road was still dirt. — Grandma would have walked over this hill toward McEwensville to reach Carrie’s home.

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

Carrie Stout was a friend of Grandma’s who was often mentioned in the diary.

Here’s what a hundred-year-old book had to say about the choice of friends:

The Choice of Friends

All of our greatest intellectual leaders, from time immemorial have been unanimous in their teachings that one of the most important elements in the molding of the mind and character was the nature of our friendships.

Tennyson says, “I am a part of all that I have met.” The immortal bard puts it, “It is certain that either wise bearing or ignorant carriage is caught, as men take disease from one another; therefore let men take heed of their company.”

A friend should be congenial, with similar tastes, opportunities, and training: frank in criticism, yet sympathetic in spirit; loyal and staunch in adversity, and one who disseminates an atmosphere which is broadening, elevating, and uplifting. Such a friend is to be desired and to be sought after.

Physical Hygiene and Physical Training for Women (1911) by Anna M. Galbraith

Cartoon Making Fun of Suffragettes

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Friday, March 14, 1913: Nothing doing.

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

Since Grandma didn’t write much a hundred years ago today, I’ll share an old cartoon about suffragettes that appeared in the April 4, 1914 issue of the Watsontown Record and Star.

Today it’s hard to perceive why anyone would think that women shouldn’t have the right the vote—it’s interesting to get a sense of the opposite perspective from this cartoon.

The Watsontown Record and Star is a long defunct newspaper from a town very near to where Grandma lived. I’ve only ever seen a few issues of it. But it probably was a newspaper that Grandma regularly read, and it probably reflected commonly held opinions in her community.

We’ve come a long way!!

Writing Another Essay

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Wednesday, March 12, 1913: Am trying to write my essay.

Lewis Hine's picture of child coal miners (Source: Wikimedia Commons) — Lewis Hine’s picture of child coal miners (Source: Wikimedia Commons)

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

Hmm… Did Grandma have to write another essay?

During much of February she was working on an essay about the Revolutionary War. Her teacher was going to give the student who wrote the best Revolutionary War essay a two and a half dollar gold piece. . . Grandma hasn’t mentioned it in the diary in quite awhile. I suppose she didn’t win the coin.

What was this essay about? . . .

I find that I want to ask myself: If I lived a hundred years ago, what would I have enjoyed writing an essay about? I know that the lens is all wrong, but here are some topic ideas that I think would have been interesting.

Should child labor be banned? — Child labor was very controversial in 1913. There were many coal mines in the southeastern part of the county where Grandma lived that used a lot of child labor, so this might have made a good essay topic.
The reasons why women should have the right to vote—It seems obvious today, but women’s suffrage was an arguable point in 1913.
The problem of adulterated foods—This was just a few years after the publication of Upton Sinclair’s book, The Jungle—and many people were very worried about the chemicals put into processed foods.
Should alcohol be prohibited? The prohibition movement was gathering steam in 1913, and taking either side of this issue would have made a good essay topic.
Planting trees on clear-cut land to improve the environment. People were worried about the environment in 1913. One concern was all of the erosion that was occurring due to the clear-cutting of old-time forests.

Chose a Date for the Play

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Tuesday, March 11, 1913: We decided tonight to have our play on the fifth of April.

The play was probably was held at the McEwensville Community Hall. The same building has served as the town’s community hall for more than 100 years.

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

The previous evening Grandma did not go to play practice because it was raining. Probably the practice was canceled on the 10th and moved to the 11th due to the inclement weather. In general it seemed play practice only took place once—or maybe twice–a week.

Grandma had been going to play practices since January 27. She had the role of Chloe, the servant. It seems somewhat surprising that the date of the play was only now selected. The cast probably wanted to be confident that they knew their lines and were ready for the play before choosing a date.

I suppose there was no need to rush to select the date since the play was probably the only upcoming event in the small town of McEwensville–and nothing else was vying for the venue.

Didn’t Go To Play Practice

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Monday, March 10, 1913: It rained tonight so we didn’t go up to practice.

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

Grandma was in the class play. Did some of the cast members show up for practice? . . or did everyone independently decide that the weather was too bad?

Today we’d text, email, or call if we couldn’t get to a play practice or meeting. A hundred years ago, did people just use their own judgment to determine whether an event was probably canceled due to weather?

How to Wash Hair Brushes and Combs

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Saturday, March 8, 1913: It was kind of dull here today. Nothing much of anything doing.

In Front of the Mirror by Georg Friedrich Kersting (Source: Wikimedia Commons)

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

Hmm—What boring chores did Grandma need to do on a dull Saturday in March? ’

When I was a child, a weekly Saturday chore was to wash all the hair brushes and combs. I wonder if Grandma also did this when she was young,

I think that the reason we washed the brushes and combs was to have clean ones after we washed our hair. (We only washed our hair once a week back then.)

Here’s how to wash brushes and combs:

Add two or three tablespoons of baking soda to a small pan filled very hot water. (I use very hot tap water.) Swish the brushes and combs through the water—and “comb” the brushes with the combs. This cleans both the brush bristles and the comb teeth. Rinse with cool water. Lay on counter to air dry.

My sense is that people brushed their hair a lot more in the old days—and that brushing was one way to distribute, or remove, the oil and dirt between washings.

I can remember those old luxurious boar hair brushes that we used to have. Can you still buy them?

Woodrow Wilson Inaugurated

17-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:

Thursday, March 6, 1913: I got pretty cold today. My hands got rather chilly coming home from school. Ma and Ruth went up to Oakes.

woodrow wilson — President Woodrow Wilson

Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:

It sounds like it was a cold day. Did Grandma forget her gloves? Maybe she thought that the day would be warmer than it actually was.

For today’s post, I searched for a hundred-year-old newspaper article about the weather, but I failed to find any anything. Instead I discovered that a hundred years ago today was the 3^rd day of President Woodrow Wilson’s presidency.

A hundred years ago the presidential inauguration was in March. Inauguration Day used to be four months after election day. In 1913, it was on March 4. Inauguration day was changed to noon on January 20 by the Twentieth Amendment in 1933.

In November, 1912 Woodrow Wilson, a Democrat, beat the incumbent president, Robert Taft in a three-way race. He also beat former president Theodore Roosevelt. Roosevelt was the founder of the Bull Moose Party. For more on the election see:

The 1912 Presidential Campaign: The Republicans, the Democrats, and the Bull Moose Party

Was Grandma excited about the new president? . . unhappy about the change. . .indifferent?

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The Oakes lived on a farm near the Muffly family. They had several children about the same age as the Muffly children. Rachel Oakes was a friend of Grandma and her sister Ruth.