19-year-old Helena Muffly wrote exactly 100 years ago today:
Wednesday, October 22, 1914: << no entry>>
Her middle-aged granddaughter’s comments 100 years later:
Another silent day. . . But I came across an editorial about women over fifty that resonated with me (probably because I’m a woman over fifty), and I thought you might also enjoy it. Here are some excerpts:
Need a Woman Over Fifty Feel Old?
An Editorial by Jane Addams
One of the most remarkable changes in the lives of women in this country has been the postponement of old age.
Chiefly because they had nothing else to do, our grandmothers, after their children had been reared and safely launched into homes of their own, expected to give their remaining years to a general oversight of the households of their sons and daughters. A vigorous woman, accustomed to the cares of a large household in which her word was law, when deprived of an absorbing occupation could not all at once reduce herself to a negligible quantity, and the traditional “mother-in-law” was quite as much the victim of circumstances as were the cherished family upon whom her unused energies were expended.
Happily there is another type of woman. The Woman’s Club movement has been a great factor in developing the powers of women who are over fifty years old. Many of them learned to write papers, to address audiences, to preside over meetings, to organize committees for the first time after they had passed that age. The women’s clubs also gave to thousands of women their first sense of responsibility in regard to public education and civic reform.
It was largely through the efforts of these club women that kindergarten, manual training, and domestic science were introduced in the public-school system of America.
These same elderly women who, in their youth, had been sheltered from any knowledge of crime and the ways of criminals, and who would have considered it most unladylike even to refer to a disreputable woman, were often responsible for securing matrons in the police stations, teachers in the jails, the establishment of juvenile courts and the abolition of vice districts.
One woman of sixty whom I know is most widely useful in many church activities, not only in the local circles of her denomination but also as the president of a State organization.
A woman over fifty years old is the executive head of a national organization which has for years urged and secured better conditions for working women and children, both through legislation and voluntary efforts. She has moved from one difficult piece of social organization to another until probably no one else in the Unites States is more conversant with the conditions of working women and children, and the laws which have been enacted on their behalf.
That weariness and dullness, which inhere in both domestic and social affairs when they are carried on by men alone, will no longer be a necessary attribute of public life when such gracious and gray-haired women become a part of it, and when new social movements, in which men as well as women are concerned, naturally utilize woman’s experience and ability.
Ladies Home Journal (October, 1914)
18 thoughts on “Need a Woman Over Ffity Feel Old?”
Fascinating article. Have things moved on hugely, especially when one reads between the lines and walks between them?
Times have definitely changed for women over the past hundred years!
That’s very definite indeed! I wonder how the next 100 will go in that regard.
That’s a fascinating opinion piece.
I’m glad you liked it. I also thought that it was interesting.
The role of a “mature” woman has certainly changed!
Are we “mature” women? (I hope not. Somehow that term doesn’t quite fit how I think about myself.)
I suspect this was written by the Jane Addams who was the founder of Hull House. She was quite a woman herself. I’m glad to have this, as I’ve been needing to look up a little history of the Women’s Club movement. The group in Kansas City played quite a role in saving some historic sites on the Santa Fe trail.
Thanks for the link. I also think that the author probably was the same Jane Addams who founded Hull House. I can remember studying her in history when I was in high school. She was one of the few women who were mentioned in our history books.
The Women’s Club movement early in the 20th century did so many good things, and is so interesting.
Times have changed in many ways. I have been blessed with many strong women as role models in my family history and now. They have lived to be old and productive. All of them are strong.
I continue to be impressed by your relative who was the first female in the South Dakota House of Representatives. (Hopefully I remembered that correctly.)
Yes. She was something. Ended up in the US Senate for a couple of months.
I am grateful to be living today! Insightful article – thanks!
I’m glad you liked the article. Some things have changed for the better!
These days 50 is just the start, and old age is 10 years beyond one’s own age
That’s also what I was thinking. 50 does not seem old at all now.
Brilliant! And we continue to discuss the same thing now, just in different terms.
I agree! Today we talk about empty nesters trying to figure out what they want to do. And, instead of women’s clubs, we have volunteer opportunities. 🙂